Serious question...... why does life has to hurt so much? 🥺

I think people have a misconception of what life is supposed to be and that is to have a nice happy life. In reality, life is hard and you have to deal with so much shit and in a lot of cases get nothing back in return.
I think once you accept that life is not all rainbows and lollipops and most of the time bad things will happen to you, things dont seem so bad in a way because that is the expectation and when good things happen you can appreciate it more