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What's your most out there fantasy?

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Extant1 · M
To be the object of an obsessive sexual addiction 🥃
popmol · 22-25, M
@Extant1 wait so someone would be addicted to you?
Extant1 · M
@popmol yep, helplessly and hopelessly😂🥃

You said most out there! That’s way way out there!
popmol · 22-25, M
@Extant1 correct although i have had the exact same xD
Extant1 · M
@popmol I think lots of us have… I just wasn’t too chicken to say it!
Carissimi · 70-79, F
You’d get tired of that before too long. @Extant1
popmol · 22-25, M
@Extant1 @Carissimi not so sure, you might have because it happens more often to women, but getting a little attention from a woman is for loads of men i know already a better gift then a winning lotery ticket! taking that to the max well it's only perfect!

correct!
Extant1 · M
@Carissimi I love ya doll, but that comment is only ever said by women. Men never say that ….

Women really do have this belief that men don’t like clingy, but in fact that’s only males with attachment issues.

It’s completely predatory to a lot of men because it hits all the masculine buttons!
Extant1 · M
@popmol it’s factually hardwired into a man to be her everything …
Why do you think current teaching is about independence and that there’s no real need for a man. It’s to brainwash away natural instinct
Carissimi · 70-79, F
I disagree. Men always get tired of women with higher libidos than them. @Extant1
Carissimi · 70-79, F
@popmol That’s because you are young with raging hormones, and don’t have a girlfriend ... at least I don’t think you do.
Extant1 · M
Not all men and there’s several unnatural biological reasons for the rise in that today, but it’s not the most natural state of a man …

Too much estrogen in foods

Too many things that decrease testosterone from poor diets

And a world that quite literally now teaches most that such thoughts and behaviors are toxic @Carissimi
popmol · 22-25, M
@Carissimi raging hormones maybe, no girlfriend indeed! but it's not that. most men i know love compliments and being the one that's pursued! i mean my heart still beat fast for the 1 random girl last summer who complemented my shirt, not even me. since i never got any compliment thinking i'd be the person they look to for love would be amazing!

and i'd be afraid of a women with a higher libido only for the fact that i might not be able to keep up and please them otherwise it's fine!
Carissimi · 70-79, F
I speak from the old days, so I’d better leave it there. I hope you find your fantasy. @Extant1
Carissimi · 70-79, F
@popmol That’s sad that you are so grateful that someone complimented your shirt, but I understand. I nearly broke down in tears when a friend bought me an orange. No one had bought me anything in such a long time. That was a long time ago, but I recall the feeling of someone being kind to me when I felt so alone.
Extant1 · M
Oh my little brother you just dumped a mouth load ….

The first flowers a man gets are at his funeral! …

I’m actually sorry you were born male, you will be subject to the worst scrutiny, the greatest injustice, you were born wrong about everything , you’ll be told that your every natural thought or impulse is toxic, you’ll be subjected to discriminatory practices with no recourse …
Hold tightly to that one compliment, they are extremely few and far between.

But above all stand … it’s what we do. @popmol
Extant1 · M
@Carissimi you know as well as I do, fantasy is the only place it’s found! 😂🥃
Carissimi · 70-79, F
I know. @Extant1
popmol · 22-25, M
@Carissimi well my self hatred, being bullied, depression, bullied and bad home situation. never a compliment that couldn't be attribute to the basics a family says.
like wow you've become big and handsome by an older aunt is nothing compared to that random girl!
popmol · 22-25, M
@Extant1 yes i'm terrified! but it's partly because i'm not meant for this society! i'm weak and strong, i'm hateful and kind most of my personality is self destructive and working against itself!

my autism doesn't help either, i'm not a manly men but i have a big body meaning people will see me as the man i'm not! like i stated that compliment is stuck in my heart!
but on the other hand the time i was asking a woman the time she screamed and ran away!
when i was acting like always! that hurt so much i'm still terrified to speak to strangers!
Carissimi · 70-79, F
I’m sorry this is your experience, and you are right that a compliment from family is very different from the opposite sex that may find you desirable. I wish you many more compliments from random girls. @popmol
popmol · 22-25, M
@Carissimi haha i appreciate it but i do find that they need to have a place and time nad be real :p but 1 a quarter year isn't bad!
Carissimi · 70-79, F
Those damn humans! 😤@popmol
popmol · 22-25, M
@Carissimi haha you sound like you're saying this from an outside human view? are you an alien?
Carissimi · 70-79, F
Probably. 😉@popmol
popmol · 22-25, M
@Carissimi awesome now you are even cooler :)