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Why do you think people on S W add you as a friend

Why do you add certain people as friends
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Loretta78 · 46-50, F
I am VERY selective when it becomes to be friend with someone.

Usually I just add people as friends when I know them since a really long time (at least one year), when there's regularly contact and when I see that they are interested in me.

People on SW probably just add me as a friend because of shallowness. Normally I put them from my list again when I see that someone has added me.
WandererTony · 56-60, M
@Loretta78 I envy your ability to remain pragmatic and logical at all times! I usually feel flattered when anyone adds me and I immediately add back! 🙂
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
@WandererTony Well, I see your point.
I just can't feel flattered when I see just shallowness when someone adds me.

Someone, who doesn't know me and who actually is not interested in my person... I can't call such a person "friend."
WandererTony · 56-60, M
@Loretta78 I guess gender has something to do with this. Most men love attention, many women prefer caution and selection.
And then again "friend" is just a term here meaning perhaps that you get notified about their posts and comments. Friendship in real, as you refer, is indeed rare, my friend 🤗
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
@WandererTony I agree.