Do you hold grudges or you let it go? why?

For a while, but never too long. I either try to fix a situation with someone OR let it go. Holding grudges won't help any of us anyway. And I need to move on with my life anyway. I often just tell myself how other people behave ain't my monkey, ain't my circus.

I don't waste my time with grudges. It's MY time, not theirs.

I still have a grudge I'd love to settle

Once I did. I still think I can't let that go.

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I hold them, even though I know it's not healthy. I struggle enough with forgiving myself. I don't know how to let go. I'd love to learn.

If one apologizes, I can let most things go. I never forget what they did though.

I let go because people who hurt me don't deserve my attention.

It can be either,depending on the situation.

let it go if its doesnt hurt me physically

Let it go