Are you usually the heart break-er or the heart break-ee?

I've been thinking.. I don't think I've ever broken anyone's heart. I'm way too loyal for that. But my heart has been broken plenty of times. And, within that same train of thought, I'm not sure the heart ever fully recovers. Just tiny scars left, memories, questions and pain.
And the over whelming urge to punch someone in the face...