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How long will it be until I stop wanting my ex?

He's the first thing I think of most mornings and sometimes 3 or so times fleeting in the day.

I can't work out if it's the routine of our on/off again or if it's a genuine longing.

My desire to be physical isn't there. But to just share some of the best things that has happened recently is grating on me.

I feel lost.

We've known each other since 2009.

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REInvNJ · 61-69, M

There are a million factors. Some, like who broke up with who, how much you still like him, and how long you've been going out are things that you have very little control over.

Other things like how much time you spend with other friends, and how much time we spend working on yourself, or basically how much time you spend being kind to yourself are things you can greatly change for thehetter

My advice is change the things you can and accept the things you can'