Lots of people have left sw recently but I realised one thing

@SW-User thats really sad, i made some really good friends here well on ep. But i think things have changed a lot. last year really messed a lot of people up and with my weird mind it was doing the weirdest things at times. although i apoplogised i do think it made no difference. what we knew this isnt it.

@Alison I'm not good with these type of things. So I may need help. I clicked that thing and it says I have restricted access.

@Mellowgirl U should be able to click on the envelope thingy.

@Alison I had to close and reopen it, now I have a ticket x

@Keepitsimple I hear you. but one person in particular that stands out used to write posts and get minimum response. id chime in when i could because i liked them and their posts and found them interesting but like anything i think i wanted a real friendship and maybe the age difference and my need for a friend was too intense( i did back off only checking in every now and then) who knows but i think they were dealing with issues of their own which they wouldnt acknowledge

@Mellowgirl People come here for different reasons. They get in and get out. You have to be really careful who you invest your time in.

@SW-User oh yes . Lots of women are doing that . Their bi fling . H

@TexChik no affairs here, only friendships.

@Mellowgirl I know , but your friends that are leaving may be heart broken or upset . 🤷🏻‍♀️

@NoGamesTolerated I wish them well. but like i said am "i chopped liver?". maybe it wasnt supposed to come out like that but yea it hurt to think i was chasing someone that didnt care for me

@Mellowgirl Big hug!

@Hoodski sorry to hear that... its not cool really. i know it adds to my insecurities.

@Mellowgirl mine too

@MarmeeMarch its not nice how they treated me, then. but i liked them, i guess it wasnt mutual always hurts when rejected.

@Mellowgirl Maybe not - so you need to evaluate for yourself - what is a true friend.

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout In real life. I don't want to get into an arguement with you over this but our generations are different and how we make and keep friends is so completely different you could say that actually we were from different planets. i grew up to talk on the phone, meet face to face, put all books or material down when in company. that no longer applies. ive spent 4 nearly 5 years trying to adjust to this new life and it has been really hard going against all i knew.
this is critical

@angie8819 These people are gone, gone for good. I think its safe to say we are not friends. they made new accounts and im guessing now they didnt want to be found.
other social media either deactivated or deleted.
Im not after anyones husband but i think if i commented on the post it would spark conversations/

@Stereoguy you ever feel like your the one friend a person really could need but they're too focused on getting in with the popular kids?