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Lots of people have left sw recently but I realised one thing

They all said they left due to broken friendships, or not having any friends here. But what does that mean I am. Chopped liver!

Am I sad they've gone. Hmm, now I think of it, there was me thinking we were friends.馃槼

Kinda fed up of making that kind of effort you know.
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Stereoguy56-60, M
I can definitely understand that. 鈽癸笍
Mellowgirl26-30, F
[@78387,Stereoguy] you ever feel like your the one friend a person really could need but they're too focused on getting in with the popular kids?
Stereoguy56-60, M
[@1196310,Mellowgirl] All my life. 鈽癸笍
Natasha2020F
This place needs a chatbox if u ask me. EP had one early on.
The q&a format makes it difficult to just chat.
And the DM system is garbage.
Like we all should vote on a common format, discord, Snapchat or whateva.
Mellowgirl26-30, F
[@1149742,Natasha2020] I'm not good with these type of things. So I may need help. I clicked that thing and it says I have restricted access.
Natasha2020F
[@1196310,Mellowgirl] U should be able to click on the envelope thingy.
Mellowgirl26-30, F
[@1149742,Natasha2020] I had to close and reopen it, now I have a ticket x
RoosterM
I hear what you are saying there! I completely understand as some supposed "friends" here have disappeared or they just decided to block, I guess. Oh well, it's just a website and not real life!
Keepitsimple51-55, F
It鈥檚 not you it鈥檚 just hard sometimes when you deal with the same stuff day after day here. Putting in good effort after bad things becomes exhausting so you find something else to do.
Mellowgirl26-30, F
[@11509,Keepitsimple] I hear you. but one person in particular that stands out used to write posts and get minimum response. id chime in when i could because i liked them and their posts and found them interesting but like anything i think i wanted a real friendship and maybe the age difference and my need for a friend was too intense( i did back off only checking in every now and then) who knows but i think they were dealing with issues of their own which they wouldnt acknowledge
Keepitsimple51-55, F
[@1196310,Mellowgirl] People come here for different reasons. They get in and get out. You have to be really careful who you invest your time in.
SW User
I鈥檝e been doing really good with keeping to myself lately on here .. there is no such things as friends .. put on my clown make-up. Log in entertain for a couple of hearts and laughing emoji鈥檚.. log out .. drink and cry myself to sleep
Mellowgirl26-30, F
[@335573,AlexaSmilez] thats really sad, i made some really good friends here well on ep. But i think things have changed a lot. last year really messed a lot of people up and with my weird mind it was doing the weirdest things at times. although i apoplogised i do think it made no difference. what we knew this isnt it.
Ppl come n go.. that鈥檚 life!
Mellowgirl26-30, F
[@327405,TheOneyouwerewarnedabout] In real life. I don't want to get into an arguement with you over this but our generations are different and how we make and keep friends is so completely different you could say that actually we were from different planets. i grew up to talk on the phone, meet face to face, put all books or material down when in company. that no longer applies. ive spent 4 nearly 5 years trying to adjust to this new life and it has been really hard going against all i knew.
this is critical
angie881951-55, F
Some take a break then come back
Mellowgirl26-30, F
[@11522,angie8819] These people are gone, gone for good. I think its safe to say we are not friends. they made new accounts and im guessing now they didnt want to be found.
other social media either deactivated or deleted.
Im not after anyones husband but i think if i commented on the post it would spark conversations/
TexChikF
Yes I see that all the time . Lots of people are having cyber affairs and when it ends, it hurts and those people run away .
TexChikF
[@527571,Rooster] oh yes . Lots of women are doing that . Their bi fling . H
Mellowgirl26-30, F
[@113373,TexChik] no affairs here, only friendships.
TexChikF
[@1196310,Mellowgirl] I know , but your friends that are leaving may be heart broken or upset . 馃し馃徎鈥嶁檧锔
MarmeeMarchM
Who cares if they鈥檙e gone.
Mellowgirl26-30, F
[@760047,MarmeeMarch] its not nice how they treated me, then. but i liked them, i guess it wasnt mutual always hurts when rejected.
MarmeeMarchM
[@1196310,Mellowgirl] Maybe not - so you need to evaluate for yourself - what is a true friend.
RelinguishedF
I certainly understand their reasons but sorry they hurt you by leaving.
Mellowgirl26-30, F
[@1143464,Relinguished] I wish them well. but like i said am "i chopped liver?". maybe it wasnt supposed to come out like that but yea it hurt to think i was chasing someone that didnt care for me
RelinguishedF
[@1196310,Mellowgirl] Big hug!
Hoodski31-35, M
Seems like everyone I thought I became friends with on here does the same
Mellowgirl26-30, F
[@756559,Hoodski] sorry to hear that... its not cool really. i know it adds to my insecurities.
Hoodski31-35, M
[@1196310,Mellowgirl] mine too
Riemann26-30, M
They had friends but they probably didn't realize..
Budwick70-79, M
Mellow - I advise focusing on face to face relationships.
EmortalM
I would leave because of the quality of posts on here.

 
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