I think the problem is that most women's experience is negative. It sounds like they judged you based on previous conversations with other people.
Many of the convos on here start with someone being nice, then being angry when their feelings aren't reciprocated. So they probably thought, "Here we go again" and wrote you off to protect themselves. 😔

Each individual is different, and even though I've had more decent pm's than not, there's have been a few that has been should I say let's desirable.

Sadly, with blank pic profiles, it's hard to trust who you are, and that's mostly because the blank pic profiles are troll/stalker ones. It's the first impression.

It might help to know what you said. You might’ve been being complimentary with no ill-intentions whatsoever, but depending on what exactly you said, it may have been interpreted as being creepy. You have to take into consideration that perverts are everywhere here and many women are on edge about it when talking to men. I avoid speaking to men through PMs altogether because of it.

No point getting angry unless it's with the 10% of dudes here that are complete pests. Shit rolls downhill I'm afraid🤷‍♀️.