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What would it mean if an SWsomeone deactivates during a conversation?

Is that like an online 'door smacked in your face'?

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TheGoodGuy · M

Maybe ptsd. They run before you do, bcoz they know inevitably that's where it's going to end up.

SW-User

@TheGoodGuy That's a bit unfair on the other person because when you make it 'inevitable' in your own mind without their consult, you write them off.
But yeah..it is what it is.

TheGoodGuy · M

@SW-User It is unfair, but when something happened in their life that completely broke them, and similar things have happened with other people, they want to run, not from you but from that heartache they feel is coming.

SW-User

@TheGoodGuy I guess it's a self prophecy then. Punishing everyone for the people long gone and turning the situation to end accordingly to fit that prophecy.

I'm not being unkind. But there is another person, a present person that people write off without thinking of the consequence to their feelings. That is not okay.

TheGoodGuy · M

@SW-User Lots of things get said where people's feelings aren't considered, it goes both ways. No it's not okay.
Has someone written you off? Have you written them off?

SW-User

@TheGoodGuy this isn't a real scenario.
🙏

TheGoodGuy · M

@SW-User Oh. Okay.