Do you like to flirt in absence of your significant other?

Nope, I have no need or desire to. Some see it as harmless fun, but eh. Through years of being a “natural flirt” I’ve been able to see it for what it really is and I choose to not even open that door anymore. It invites a lot of headache and drama just to have a good time and feel good about your ability to be appealing to others. I can have a blast with another without having to resort to it and even though my self-esteem is wonky, it’s solid enough that I don’t need to engage in the act to feel good about myself or the opportunities available to me should I ever want to pursue them. I’m good not being that person.