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Do you ever feel gaslighted by this QnA?

I think I just answered a question about 'Can you love someone and cheat on them' or something like that. It disappeared immediately and now I don't know if I was daydreaming or I really replied to it. 😂

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okaybut · 56-60, M

This is a hard question. I have cheated and been in love. But of course, there is a but. We have 25 years an age gap and for me I did not see a future for her with me. Family, etc. I am in somewhat of a paternal or Daddy and I kept encouraging her to leave the relationship. Okay..shit...I have no but..I cheated. Oh..there is a but..but I still loved her...but not in a traditional relationship way.

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@okaybut Okay. Was this uncomfortable or hard to accept about yourself?

okaybut · 56-60, M

@SW-User I would say uncomfortable. I was married for 17 years and never cheated even when it was falling apart the last few years. So I can deny myself temptation. Oh...I keep forgetting Zella Day is one of my fav singers.

SW-User

@okaybut If there is a reference about Zella Day to do with anything, I am missing it on account of not even knowing she existed till now. 😂 If its just a random thing you wanted to share, then great! I might check out some of her music.

okaybut · 56-60, M

@SW-User Oh...thought you were inspired by her picture. Not sure if you will like her tunes...but one of my favs. :)