Whom do you prefer, your mom or your dad?

If you'd asked me that question 10-12 years ago I would have immediately said my mum. But after some CBT I realised my dad wasn't the arse I always painted him. Yeah he's still got a hell of a temper but we get on most of the time and we do text each almost everyday. He's a warm person but my mum is the opposite and it took me a long time to realise it.