Moving too close too fast

Aggressiveness

Jealousy
Possessiveness
Manipulation

Disregarding your emotions or emotional needs. Refusing to compromise or take a interest in you as a well. An imbalance of give and take. Emotional outbursts from your partner.

Saying they love you super early, or calling you their soul mate, any signs of control, violence, isolating you from friends or family, thinking they can control your movements or what you wear etc...if you are feeling like there are things that might be red flags, listen to them, don't make excuses for the persons bad behaviour

The attempt to take control. Especially wanting to monopolize every moment of your time, right away.

Over-possessiveness.

Love bombing.

Questions like, “Are you a size 14?” Or he arrive with a gift basket full of skin lotions. Or, “Come to my place. You’ll just love my little dog Precious.”

Bragging and talking about how big your contacts are ,,

All of the above

Bad temper

Me accidentally ending up in it. Red flag every time. That's when it's time to run for the exits.

A person who is obsessed with themselves and is a narc. It was too late when I realised that.

A narcissistic attitude.

Oh..got to add passive aggressive behaviour, and also insults that they say was a joke...gees, the more I think about it the worse I feel about people

If he beats the hell out of you

Any kind of dishonesty