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poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
that’s kinda how i started my polyamorous relationship
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@poisonouscupcake do they know about eachother?
poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
@Dan193 it’s broken off now but yeah they did
i was dating one of them when i met the other and i thought i was going to have to choose but when i told them both they were okay with it and i started dating both of them but they didn’t date each other
i was dating one of them when i met the other and i thought i was going to have to choose but when i told them both they were okay with it and i started dating both of them but they didn’t date each other
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@poisonouscupcake damn that's pretty cool. Do you think they were hurt? I think I would be,that's why I'm reluctant to tell them or to flirt or talk too much to any of them in front of another. So they wouldn't get suspicious. And they maybe are, but I try to think that I'm doing a good job at hidding it.
poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
@Dan193 they were not hurt which i think has something to do with the fact that they were both different genders and they’re both very non jealous people
but i think open communication should be what you do next because whether you like it or not what you’re doing now can’t go on forever so it’s worth it to just talk about it and either move on or figure out what to do next if something comes out of it
but i think open communication should be what you do next because whether you like it or not what you’re doing now can’t go on forever so it’s worth it to just talk about it and either move on or figure out what to do next if something comes out of it
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@poisonouscupcake somebody mentioned to just tell them both about my feelings for both of them and say that I can't date any because I can't make uo my mind. And see who stays.
But the issue with that is that I don't like giving the power to other people to make the decision for me.
But the issue with that is that I don't like giving the power to other people to make the decision for me.
poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
@Carazaa thats a good idea i didn’t think about that
it leaves it open!!
it leaves it open!!