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Is something wrong?

Several things happened recently, and I don't know if I have unnecessary concerns or something is actually wrong.

Ten days ago, my GF suggested we stop using Whatsapp because of the recent issues related to that app and move to another texting app instead. She said she is going to use Whatsapp only for work and not for her personal life anymore.

Last week, she had some problems with her laptop and asked me to help her. She was sharing her desktop screen on Skype, so I could see what is wrong. She opened a window, and suddenly she panicked and stopped sharing the screen like there was something I shouldn't have seen. It was a bit awkward.

Four days ago, we talked on the phone, and I asked her a simple question like if she would study tomorrow. She got irritated and hung up. Since then, we have barely talked.

I checked her Whatsapp, and I saw she is online there quite a lot after work hours.

Because of my experience with a cheating girlfriend, I am having bad feelings about it.
Do you think this is justified, or am I just overthinking?
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If it was me I would be suspicious....ask about her whatsapp activity that she says she doesnt trust. If you dont get a reasonable answer go no contact with her for a while & see what happens.

What is the issue with whats app as I use it?
LookingForTheSummer · 31-35, M
@Cutiepi23 Yes, I am suspicious, too. But I haven't asked her about it yet because I don't want to sound like a controlling or stalking person. For now, I am keeping the distance as well to see what is going to happen. However, I cannot stop thinking about it.

About Whatsapp:

https://www.androidpolice.com/2021/01/17/whatsapp-is-trying-its-best-to-keep-users-from-switching-to-signal-and-telegram/