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Just a little vent

So I just worked an 8 hour shift and I get annoyed when I come home because I have to be around people who aren’t the best to be around and when I’m home I become introverted I don’t want to talk. I haven’t been responding to my boyfriend much which isn’t out of toxicity I just don’t open his messages because I have to re energize myself well I told him I’ll get better at talking to him after I come home from work. And he hasn’t replied to me now like he’s doing it back to me on purpose. But I’m not talking to him out of toxicity it’s just I just am not in a chipper mood idk?

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MistahJ · 31-35, M

It's fine if you need time to wind down but it's not fair to get upset if he isn't responding back to you right away if you don't do the same, regardless of the reason. It doesn't feel good when you think someone you care for is blowing you off.

You could just give him a head's up that you're not ignoring him, you just need to wind down after work so you don't take your attitude out on him. Communication is key.