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How to stop being a bully?

I might've opened Pandora's box
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Psycho · 26-30, M
Do you think you are a bully?
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@Psycho it's been progressing recently. Like I started name calling and taking the piss out of more than just one or 2 people.
Like today there was this new guy that started work here and I was supposed to help him, but I started nitpicking everything and even yelled at him when he said something back.
Also this other guy that doesn't talk much, today I just had to be mean to him, only because it tickles me on the inside when bringing somebody down. And I know I'm just ruining my relationship with him, and others that I do this to, because I do it to like half of the people now at this point. And even here on SW I notice myself starting to do it.
Psycho · 26-30, M
@Dan193 Has what you want from life changed recently?
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@Psycho yes, it actually did. I decided to focus on having the best adventure. Life adventure. And I know this will be a problem, so I need to put a stop to it before it gets out of hand.
Psycho · 26-30, M
@Dan193 Maybe there's a purpose in your behaviour. It maybe that you think it is required to be a certain way to reach your goal.

It may just be a case of re-evaluating the beliefs that lead to these behaviours.
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@Psycho Thanks man