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Why do I always have to oppose people?

Everytime somebody says something I just have to oppose their point of view and come with an idea that counters theirs (even if I agree with them), and when they defend their position I end up pressing more until it becomes an argument. Even when somebody just says something positive, my first instinct is to point out the flaw.

Why do I do that? I realize that it's to my detriment, but could u speculate on what could be the root to this behaviour?

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littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

You are negative. It's hard for you to accept and let go things. You need to control your emotions. Learn meditation.

Dan193 · 31-35, M

@littlepuppywantanewlife hm, I was never called negative before, but it's an interesting subject to ponder upon, since you can see only my thoughts through SW, or just this post alone. The rest I accepted as true.

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@Dan193 you can yourself judge about negative and positive effects. It's just state of mind. once you start accepting things. It will start changing everything else too.

Dan193 · 31-35, M

@littlepuppywantanewlife when I start accepting myself as negative? 😂 of course everything will start to change ...for the worse.

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@Dan193 lol accepting the situation.