do you know anyone that passed away before their time?

what i meant was did they die of old age or not

Fair enough, i just see whenever we die as the time it was 'meant' to happen anyway.

Yeah i did, one of my cousins committed suicide and my other cousin was part of the forensics team that went in..another guy i used to know called Fray died in a car accident as well, people were heart broken he was such a lovely guy from what i knew of him.

@Outoforbits: wow im so sorry no one should go through that

I feel more sorry for my cousin, but death is something releasing. It's just hard for the people in this paradigm who are accepting it, our society has a very morbid view on death as well.
Energy just takes a different form, so i find a comfort in that :)
We should just remember the best parts of them and learn from what kind of people they were and what was important to them.
Some tribal cultures re-enact what that person would do for a day, so if they laughed a lot they'd all walk around laughing. I think we could benefit from something like that..

@Outoforbits: i actually did that not laugh a lot but act like the person who died for me

I'm sorry to hear that, it's great that you honoured them like that though.
Do you mind if i ask about it?

@Outoforbits: no i don't mind it was my little sister

Ah that must have been tough for you and your family..i'm sorry again to hear that.
But i'm sure she'd be happy to know you did what you did. A psychic who works with the police told me a female in my family watches over me, so i'm sure your sister probably looks out for you too :)
*big hugs*

@Outoforbits: probably disaprovingly -hugs back

Haha likewise...sorry my internets being shit so it double posts sometimes.

@Outoforbits: its ok lol ya my sister must see me drink till every time is the day of her death i just drink till i forget that day actually passed

Well we all have our own ways of dealing with it, i hope it gets easier for you soon and that you find a little more peace every time. I know when my friend lost her dad it was hard for a long time, but she's a lot more at peace with it now.

@Outoforbits: its hard

I can't imagine what it must be like with someone so close..well my heart goes out to you and your family. Well if you ever wanna talk about it i'm here and so are lots of others that can probably relate to you more. (sorry to sound like the school counsellor)

@Outoforbits: oh trust me you dont sound like the school counsellor that i met

Were they just totally unequipped to deal with anything that actually mattered?..sounds like a school counsellor to me.

@Outoforbits: no she straight out said this happens everyday so buck up and get over it. i wanted to fucking punch her

Wtf really?. Should have, sounds like someone who's bitter about their job and their own life. Or worse, haven't even been through any conflict in their lives and decide to counsel people for a living...what a fucking nonse

You should have punched her in the face and been like "Yeah, this kind of stuff happens every day so get over it"..

@Outoforbits: honestly i almost did and hell i almost gave her a wedgie but my big sister was there and knew it so she stopped me before

Haha too bad..what a bell end