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My friend has been in a relationship for two years . She has her own house does everything for him yet he won't commit 100% to her what's his problem

He is cold towards her yet he says he loves her !so confusing !
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Mugin16 · 46-50, M
Do they live together? What does she do for him?
LJW35 · 41-45, F
No they are looking for somewhere .he still lives at home at the age of 37!!she has her own house yet he barely stay's with her .it's a real problem
Mugin16 · 46-50, M
@Raingirl82: How long have they been together?
LJW35 · 41-45, F
@Mugin16: 2 years !
Mugin16 · 46-50, M
@Raingirl82: I see. Well then I guess he either does not want to commit to hear because he keeps other chicks on the side or he is a mamma's boy who will never move out.

Does he have a job? Could he afford his own place if he wanted?
LJW35 · 41-45, F
Yes we think he's a mamas boy but have to cut the apron strings sometime ..Hes 37 ! that other 20% is missing but she won't wait forever
Mugin16 · 46-50, M
@Raingirl82: She should save herself the time and give him an ultimatum: move in with her or the relationship is over.
LJW35 · 41-45, F
Yeah she needs to do something it's all hurting her so bad that things aren't moving forward !
Mugin16 · 46-50, M
@Raingirl82: She needs to resolve this issue one way or the other quickly. Tell her that.
LJW35 · 41-45, F
@Mugin16: thanks for the advice :-)
Mugin16 · 46-50, M
@Raingirl82: How old is your friend?
Mugin16 · 46-50, M
@LJW35: Has your friend resolved this issue now?
LJW35 · 41-45, F
@Mugin16: Well they are still together - so yes things got better for her :-) thanks for asking !
Mugin16 · 46-50, M
@LJW35: Has he moved in with her?
LJW35 · 41-45, F
@Mugin16: Yip living together so he finally wised up and got serious lol!
Mugin16 · 46-50, M
@LJW35: Good for her. Did she give him an ultimatum?
LJW35 · 41-45, F
@Mugin16: She basically told him to commit or go away - he seems to have had an attitude adjustment and is now being a good bf :-)
Mugin16 · 46-50, M
@LJW35: I thought that was necessary. Sounds like she has him well trained now. ;-)