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What did I do wrong?

So my lady is giving me the silent treatment because we're grocery shopping and I walk to a different isle to get something. This woman compliments me on my outfit and I smiled and said "thanks, I like your shoes "

She's LEGITIMATELY pissed off at me for that
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MellyMel22 · F
[i][c=#BF0080]Some women who would go outta their way to compliment a guy would take your compliment as flirting back w/her, that must be what bothered her. [/c][/i]
Indifferent · 31-35, M
@MellyMel22 I can't get it! We literally spoke for 5 seconds! Guys have given her compliments before and I never got that way because I'M THE ONE she's with. She's tripping
MellyMel22 · F
@Indifferent [c=#BF0080][i]Did she compliment them back? Maybe she got a vibe from the girl. Maybe your girl saw her look over while you were w/her- which would mean she knew she was w/you and still approached you. There are some trashy women out there who don’t care if a guy is taken 🤷🏻‍♀️ [/i][/c]
Indifferent · 31-35, M
@MellyMel22 yes I get that part, I do but WHY is she so pissed off at me? She could've told me it bothered her and that it made her uncomfortable or something. That's not the mature way to handle things
MellyMel22 · F
@Indifferent [i][c=#BF0080]Maybe she feels disrespected. I bet if you had just said thanks and moved on quick it wouldn’t had been so bad.. I’d ask her what bothered her exactly so it doesn’t happen again. [/c][/i]
Indifferent · 31-35, M
@MellyMel22 it really sounds like if your guy did that, you'd react the same way 😄
MellyMel22 · F
@Indifferent [i][c=#BF0080] Naa.. if I felt he was a flirter or womanizer, he wouldn’t be my guy 🤷🏻‍♀️ [/c][/i]
Indifferent · 31-35, M
@MellyMel22 I'm neither of those. That's disrespectful
MellyMel22 · F
@Indifferent [i][c=#BF0080]I don’t know you to say. [/c][/i]
Indifferent · 31-35, M
@MellyMel22 good point