I don't understand you're so many fetish groups on this this site yet no one wants to talk about them

They came from EP. The site before this one.

When you, you mainly just get abuse and shaming hurled at you. Or people asking about a different fetish like they're interchangeable

If you have a thick skin then go for it.
It was more normal at EP over four years ago.

I love fetishes but too many people are meanies and shamers