Do you subscribe to the notion of "give and take"?

I try not to give anymore , because people see it as a weakness .You give them an inch and they take a mile and the royal piss .I got sick of being treated like some sort of mug . If you dont believe me set up a monthly direct debit to a charity and I gaurantee within in weeks you will be inundated with begging letters from other charities its a farce .