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What you don't know can't hurt you.... right?

I had a fallout with my insensitive friend who would always say mean things in an innocent good conversation, she would make sneaky jabs.... last week I stopped answering her calls, yesterday she knocked my door I looked hole thingy and ignored her, so she left a recording on my WhatsApp, I'm tempted to listen but I'm very sensitive incase she starts yelling or swearing.... should I just delete it without listening after all what you don't hear can't hurt you!

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easterniowegin · 51-55, M

You'll also wonder about it. Why not just sit this "friend" down and tell her what she's doing and why you will no longer accept it. Then it is on her...not you.

RadiantRuby

@easterniowegin I've helped her so much then she grew jealous because I have more resources than her. In the beginning of the pandemic I've lent her money twice .....last week she visited me and looked really nice in my opinion, then she told me I got fat, I honestly did not, she even told me I had stomach rolls wtf lol I decided to stop talking to her after that. Is she worth talking to, bitting the hand that fed her in dire need.... all together I lent her 500 dollars that she never returned

easterniowegin · 51-55, M

@RadiantRuby sometimes a quick comeback to put her in her place is necessary.
Women sometimes do these little tests, just to see how their friends/partners react. They want to find out, are they really a friend, will they hold them accountable, will they stand firm...