How come guys seemed more blunt and straight than girls?

I’ve heard guys say blunt things about girls bodies and say it straight up.
One guy bluntly told me he rather cuddle with me than my thin friends because hugging my friends is like almost breaking them and hugging a bag of bones.
Another guy I overheard said he doesn’t wanna bone a boney chick, he would bone me because I’m plump and juicer but if would be nice if I was shorter. Boys are nasty and plus I’m fat. I’m 5’10 and 245lbs