Is it easy to find someone who is able to understand you and be your bestie?

To be a "bestie" the feeling must be mutual. You must both be willing to help each other, listen to their hearts feelings, and be willing to help in tasks which the other would appreciate. I have a bestie who is willing to take out my trash and recycled items (I am disabled), bring me milk for my cereal, juice and bread. He will listen to my troubles and sometimes advise an answer. He says he LIKES to help others.