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I just want my ex to tell me why

She just needs to tell me why she stopped caring, I don't know what I did, I tried my best to make her happy I even forced my self to be happy in order to create a change for a better me but I just feel that wasn't the way to go, I lost I still lost.

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Zaxel · 26-30, M

you cant control people, sometimes people change. what they thought they originally wanted, they may decide they dont want it anymore, or that it wasnt what they really wanted. alot of it isnt rational either, its subconscious and emotional. which means that its not necessarily you thats the issue, its that their initial conception of who you are no longer met what they wanted as they got to know you more. people dont like people, they like the idea of what they think someone is.

SnoopDawg · 26-30, M

@Zaxel man I'm not trying to control anything, what I want is relief so I can move on and better myself, I can't accept being ignored as a respectable answer.

It's always what other people want for themselves, but when it's time to actually speak on their actions they're a no call no show.

That may work for you but that doesn't work for me!

Zaxel · 26-30, M

@SnoopDawg yeah i wasnt saying youre controlling them, i guess a better way to say it, its hard to influence what people are already thinking.
yeah consistency, dependability, accountability is hard to find even though its simple... good luck

revenant · F

@SnoopDawg that has happened to me, i tortured myself with the why too and it took a long time before just accepting that..well this is what it is. People want closure for sure and it is hell when you do not get it but good luck to you.

SnoopDawg · 26-30, M

@revenant it's driving me crazy, I don't end anything without an explanation.

revenant · F

@SnoopDawg there will be thousands going on in your head and perhaps it is a form of torture imposed on you so that she has a permanent rental and it is cruel, yes.

SnoopDawg · 26-30, M

@revenant i just want to move past this portion of my life.