When was the last time you had a crush?

Have you confronted them??🙊

@Poptartinvasion: Nooo, no nooo. I'm waaay too shy and I think I've waited too long such that they now have a boyfriend. I don't think she'd want to be with me anyways... just way too awesome.

@zmedleff1: you should have more confidence in yourself. If she has a boyfriend now you should defiently respect that though if you truly care for her. If you do ever get the chance to confess to her or anyone else you fall for in the future you should do it without hesitation. If you don't you'll always sit there wondering about the "what ifs" you don't want fear to get in the way of you being happy

Well, I only seem to get crushed on those who are my friends, or quickly become friends with those I have a crush on. The last person, i did have a crush on found out approximately when I had screwed up the courage to talk to her -- she reacted ... badly. She stopped talking to me in person, blocked my FB and my number and began writing mean poetry directed at me. I had never had a single bad thing to say about her and she accused me of all kinds of negative publicity. Kinda hurt. She had been a friend and talked to me a bit before, and now she hasn't in a year. So that hadn't helped me with this realization of a dream thing.

@zmedleff1: that's intense over a crush! People can be so imature I wouldn't let it get to you and I defiently wouldn't let it discourage you from doing anything now or in the future. Be thankful that she blocked you because she clearly was never a friend to begin with. 🙂 friends do not do that to each other

@Poptartinvasion: Yeah, after a while I was able to realize that if she can be like this it was doing me a favor. I don't come with one heart I am responsible for 3. Mine and my two kids, and they love deeply, too. I left their step-mom over what she was doing to my kids and it made me realize I have to consider their little hearts when I get into something.

@zmedleff1: well I'm glad you take your children into consideration as well as yourself when it comes to love. 😊

Thank you, yeah it's a balance where you can't let them think they have a say -- so they can't run rim-shod allover your love life, but they have to be able to trust you'll make decisions that aren't unhealthy for them. I think if my youngest sees another woman take advantage of [big][b][i]me[/i][/b][/big] he'd Kill-Da-Bitch, if you pardon my saying it that way.

@zmedleff1: yes and kids are always watching so you do want to make the best example of how love show be around them because they defiently follow in your footsteps and you would never want any of them to be taken advantage of.

I think you very much get it. 👍