Does it annoy you when people assume that you have to be mixed based on not fitting the stereotype?
People seem to think that i take it as a compliment when they tell me I look part so and so.
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Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
They say it to my sister as well.
I don’t see it as negative or positive. But typically they are saying you look like xyz because they find your features attractive
I don’t see it as negative or positive. But typically they are saying you look like xyz because they find your features attractive
JaneCas · 26-30, F
@Mrsbetweenfatandfit I just wish people can see that just because you look one way from a ethnicity that you can still be attractive and not mixed. To me in a sense it feels that I am not attractive other wise because I don't fit that mold. I hope that makes sense. haha :)
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
@JaneCas I understand how it could be taken negatively. My best friend has gotten a “compliment” which I think is just freaking rude. They’ll tell her ( random strangers) how she’s so pretty [i]for [/i] a dark skinned girl
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