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My girlfriend always struggles to make female friends, women seem to make snide comments have you experienced this?

I've always found this to be quite odd, she's is absolutely gorgeous in my eyes but very shy.

She's kind and struggles with her confidence but pushes on anyways.

I always tell her she is probably the nicest person I've ever met.

As a consequence she doesn't always see when someone doesn't have her best interest at heart.

My only criticism is when she feels slighted she can be defensive and doesn't address the issue head on.

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perceptivei · 36-40, F

What kind of comments

Davemcdave · 46-50, M

@perceptivei well snide remarks about her only being able to afford x because of me. Which isn't true, I've made life easier as we share the load but she handled everything on her own before me.
She's frugal.
I've witnessed women question her about her makeup, they say she looks nice then quiz her on if she did it herself, then want a breakdown on products almost for proof.

I've witnessed women just outright not introduce her to their partners-her ex best friend she didn't want her to steal him.

Casheyane · F

@Davemcdave I think she should get a new circle of friends. Girls who need to bring other girsl down are not mature enough to be called women, no matter what the age. Just leave them. It shows they're insecure of their own relationship.

It's alright to ask about one's makeup but with genuie interest to know tips and as guide how to do better. Or maybe to give advice. But you can be a friend without needing to make someone feel bad about herself.

perceptivei · 36-40, F

@Casheyane I agree 100%.