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What are you NOT flexible about?

The one thing you draw the line about that you're done with it the at the first utterance?
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tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
Any personal attack on me either verbal or physical and sexual harassment.
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde youre a fighter?
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@HeteroDox I am yes,I have a 4th dan karate black and train in MMA and Krav Magra too.Us martial artists are actually very friendly.But when someone attacks me the response is savage and very effective.
Maybe I’m weird but this under certain circumstances I think I could live with. Not the sexual harassment but the other two. @tallpowerhouseblonde
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@Spoiledbrat No way would I tolerate a physical attack and I'm very willing to use my sharp tongue if anyone tries to argue with me.When a guy tried to get an upskirt picture of me I clawed his face with my long sharp fingernails so badly he was bleeding and has 8 permanent scars the length of his face.
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde similar experience here...
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@HeteroDox I trust you dealt effectively with any situation you found yourself in.
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde criminal conviction for battery, suspended sentence
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@HeteroDox Ouch,I came close to that once but got away clean.Seems you handed out a beating.
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde i only dislocated his shoulder... my friends and i were out and a guy wanted to hand out hugs tome me and freinds and he grabbed my breast and wouldnt let go. I did warn him
Unless I felt threatened I probably would have called the police and pressed charges. I didn’t mean like an actual attack. It would also depend on the circumstances. @tallpowerhouseblonde
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@HeteroDox He deserved it for what he did.
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde The judge threatened to counter charge if he pressed for time served, and i got fines and community outreach
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@Spoiledbrat The issue with calling the police is they need time to arrive at the scene.It is so often all over by then.Upskirting was not a specific crime then like it is now.I've been involved in a few incidents across the years,but only ever sexually harassed once.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@HeteroDox You could also counter for sexual harassment and point out he initiated the incident.
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde It was taken into account me and my friends were military cadets with some defensive training, but me especially as I hold a 1st dan in aikido. I was told i showed poor judgement and that it wasnt life threatening therefore didn't meet "self defence" criteria
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@HeteroDox Whoever said it showed poor judgement is an idiot.I bet they would not like being grabbed in a similar way,or if a man said it grabbed by his balls.
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde the crown prosecutor tried to argue that i had acted too impulsively, drunk i was, but i DID warn him to let me go.. The wrist lock was easy, the should came by accident and i did set it.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@HeteroDox That crown prosecutor was a toss pot.I didn't even get arrested when I clawed that guy's face from his hairline to his jawline with both hands.In work too.He could not report me without getting himself into trouble,and I made his face bleed really badly too.I saw him 7 years later when I was out socially which is how I know he has 8 vivid scars.
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde Canada has the dumbest justice system anywhere... they would rather you get raped and charge the assailant than protect yourself, then watch as the assailant pleas down to a lesser charge for minimal prison time.

It was a great lesson.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@HeteroDox We have a petty decent judicial system here in England,not perfect but they try and get it right.There are way worse places than Canada for justice systems,and you sure taught him a lesson.Here you would not have got anything.
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde They like to think so... but here the PM blatantly breaks the law and not even so much as a stern finger
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@HeteroDox Leaders often act above the law.
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde We can't believe what hes gotten away with, oui