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tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
Any personal attack on me either verbal or physical and sexual harassment.
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde youre a fighter?
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@HeteroDox I am yes,I have a 4th dan karate black and train in MMA and Krav Magra too.Us martial artists are actually very friendly.But when someone attacks me the response is savage and very effective.
Spoiledbrat · F
Maybe I’m weird but this under certain circumstances I think I could live with. Not the sexual harassment but the other two. @tallpowerhouseblonde
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@Spoiledbrat No way would I tolerate a physical attack and I'm very willing to use my sharp tongue if anyone tries to argue with me.When a guy tried to get an upskirt picture of me I clawed his face with my long sharp fingernails so badly he was bleeding and has 8 permanent scars the length of his face.
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde similar experience here...
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@HeteroDox I trust you dealt effectively with any situation you found yourself in.
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde criminal conviction for battery, suspended sentence
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@HeteroDox Ouch,I came close to that once but got away clean.Seems you handed out a beating.
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde i only dislocated his shoulder... my friends and i were out and a guy wanted to hand out hugs tome me and freinds and he grabbed my breast and wouldnt let go. I did warn him
Spoiledbrat · F
Unless I felt threatened I probably would have called the police and pressed charges. I didn’t mean like an actual attack. It would also depend on the circumstances. @tallpowerhouseblonde
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@HeteroDox He deserved it for what he did.
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde The judge threatened to counter charge if he pressed for time served, and i got fines and community outreach
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@Spoiledbrat The issue with calling the police is they need time to arrive at the scene.It is so often all over by then.Upskirting was not a specific crime then like it is now.I've been involved in a few incidents across the years,but only ever sexually harassed once.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@HeteroDox You could also counter for sexual harassment and point out he initiated the incident.
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde It was taken into account me and my friends were military cadets with some defensive training, but me especially as I hold a 1st dan in aikido. I was told i showed poor judgement and that it wasnt life threatening therefore didn't meet "self defence" criteria
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@HeteroDox Whoever said it showed poor judgement is an idiot.I bet they would not like being grabbed in a similar way,or if a man said it grabbed by his balls.
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde the crown prosecutor tried to argue that i had acted too impulsively, drunk i was, but i DID warn him to let me go.. The wrist lock was easy, the should came by accident and i did set it.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@HeteroDox That crown prosecutor was a toss pot.I didn't even get arrested when I clawed that guy's face from his hairline to his jawline with both hands.In work too.He could not report me without getting himself into trouble,and I made his face bleed really badly too.I saw him 7 years later when I was out socially which is how I know he has 8 vivid scars.
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde Canada has the dumbest justice system anywhere... they would rather you get raped and charge the assailant than protect yourself, then watch as the assailant pleas down to a lesser charge for minimal prison time.
It was a great lesson.
It was a great lesson.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@HeteroDox We have a petty decent judicial system here in England,not perfect but they try and get it right.There are way worse places than Canada for justice systems,and you sure taught him a lesson.Here you would not have got anything.
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde They like to think so... but here the PM blatantly breaks the law and not even so much as a stern finger
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@HeteroDox Leaders often act above the law.
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde We can't believe what hes gotten away with, oui