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How can I say that I don't want to have s3x anymore?

Paliglass · 41-45, F
Just say "I don't want to have sex anymore"
Paliglass · 41-45, F
@DragunFruit I guess you have to keep saying it
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@Paliglass And sticking with it so he doesn't become confused about the decision.
DragunFruit · 26-30, F
SW-User
Ask them to marry you.
DragunFruit · 26-30, F
@SW-User not yet the time
SW-User
@DragunFruit I was being a bit sarcastic. But in all seriousness you should probably just be honest with them and be prepared for a less than favorable response.
DragunFruit · 26-30, F
@SW-User oh
Montanaman · M
Your body, Your rules ☝️😎
Just say you’re gay
DragunFruit · 26-30, F
@LithiumDrop what? That won't work
Paliglass · 41-45, F
@DragunFruit it doesn't work 😂
DragunFruit · 26-30, F
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
That is disheartening. You are way to young to give up on it.
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
Have a truthful conversation with them. It’s important to know where you both stand so you each have the opportunity to make the choice to stay and adapt or move on separate
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Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
@misterbigtime thank ya!
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
As in with someone you are in a relationship with or in general?
DragunFruit · 26-30, F
I have this feeling that I want him to be my lifetime partner but, there are just things that he does that doesn't go well @Lackwittyname
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
@DragunFruit Well if circumstances are causing you to not feel sexual with him I would say that is a bad sign for a lifetime partner. Means he has done something that has affected you
DragunFruit · 26-30, F
@Lackwittyname he could even sleep while I'm crying. Dunno
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DragunFruit · 26-30, F
@misterbigtime that might work
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SW-User
Nooooooooo!
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Use simple language. Be straightforward and clear. Prepare for an argument.
DragunFruit · 26-30, F
@greenmountaingal I'm not good in arguments. More likely to end up, me, being over acting
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@DragunFruit Then lay down the law. Say you won't argue about it, you're just not willing to have sex anymore. Don't argue; make your statement and stick with it. You could even write it in a letter. Remind yourself that you don't need to defend or explain. It"s your body; you get to decide what you will or won't do with it.
Benjr134 · M
Just simply tell them. Is it a partner? Otherwise it’s very simple.
DragunFruit · 26-30, F
@Benjr134 partner
Benjr134 · M
@DragunFruit That is harder. You might have to prepare yourself for a breakup if you do tell them.
KA9ha · 31-35, M
the decision is for you to give
SW-User
Have the conversation
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workathome · 51-55, M
just say no

 
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