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Why is it bad to tell people what they want to hear?

My dad said, "You gotta sometimes tell people what they DONT want to hear. It's like telling the truth, either you wanna hear it or not."

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BiblicalWarrior · 51-55, M

It's bad because if all you ever do is tell people what they want to hear, they will never know anything is wrong with them and nothing will change.

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BiblicalWarrior · 51-55, M

@NotValid There is a way to speak the objective truth lovingly.

NotValid · 31-35, F

@BiblicalWarrior How?

BiblicalWarrior · 51-55, M

@NotValid Okay. Objective truth: Mankind is, by our current nature, sinful, but there is a solution.

lulaluboo

Your dad is right

NotValid · 31-35, F

@lulaluboo Even if the truth hurts. My dad told us one time, "If you can't handle the truth or someone shouting at you, then you're not ready for the world that doesn't give a damn about your feelings. The truth doesn't care about your feelings. Get used to it kid! You will feel uncomfortable once in your life. Life is harsh and cruel. You need to accept that."