I got accused of being ungenerous and rude.

I went over to my brother's for dinner tonight. He lives in an apartment building and he had his door open because it was hotter than hell in that place. Anyway he sees people going down the hall and he offers them cheesecake. I told him we didn't have enough plates and forks, which was true. He began passing out pieces on a paper towel. He did this for at least 3 different people.

After they left I got accused of being rude and ungenerous because it's the holiday season and we are supposed to give and be generous. Good lord no wonder I barely visit. It's like earlier in the year when I yelled at him for going to the hood to pass out sandwiches to the drug addicted bums.