And with the diaper thing I just saw being mentioned , a lot of autistic people have bladder or bowel problems, it’s a developmental disorder so we are slower in learning to walk , talk and use the toilet properly. I had accidents until I was 8 and I have toilet problems , I had to wear medical ladies pants due to that problem. I’m 19 and I still have that problem , my brother was autistic and couldn’t use the bathroom , so I’m just saying that this person might have medical problems that require them. It’s not always a fetish with most people. Also sometimes it’s a sensory thing. Nobody can really say if anyone has it or not unless they are a doctor so I just keep an open mind as I wouldn’t like anyone to accuse me of lying about my diagnosis and it’s not really something people would want to pretend to have as society gives it a bad reputation as they don’t understand it.