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How do you make it so you don’t feel left out in a group?

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Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M
I don’t care about being part of a “group.” I do my thing... if people want to join me... then fine. If I go it alone... fine
lilangel · 26-30, F
I mean I’m in college. I have to engage with groups of people I don’t know I don’t have a choice lol@Spokeskitties75
Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M
@lilangel oh.... college... well that’s a different story... haha!!
ReneeT · 61-69, M
@lilangel Being in face to face groups, you need to open up a little and try to find some common ground with those in the group.
lilangel · 26-30, F
I think I can take this idea. I need to open up@ReneeT
lilangel · 26-30, F
@ReneeT I always feel like I’m going to piss them off if I talk like if I’m annoying or something
Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M
@lilangel don’t project!!! That’s where you will run into problems... if you think you’re annoying and you project that... people pick up on it. Just be positive about yourself
Bushmanoz · 56-60, M
@lilangel you are overthinking it, just be yourself, if they get pissed off, they werent the group for you
lilangel · 26-30, F
I survive if someone doesn’t like me. It’s different when I’m at school @Bushmanoz
Bushmanoz · 56-60, M
@lilangel Everyone, even those in groups that seem to be really tight clicks have self doubts, some people just go in and lay it on the line and make true friendships. I guarantee there are people in those groups who are working at fitting in and their minds are racing every time