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When people don't show their gender or age?

If you can't even be upfront with that...
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GlitzandGlamber · 26-30, F
[c=#BF0080] Yeah I know what you mean. But at the same time I understand that there can be reasons why people may do that. Like for instance - Sometimes when you are a young girl, you are bombarded by creepers just because of the sex and age. So some people hide it. I'm sure there are other reasons too, but yeah. I know hiding it can seem kinda shady even when people may not mean to be. So I do understand where you are coming from![/c]
abe182 · 46-50, M
Thank you. And I just like to know of they are 15 or 70 M or F. It's kind of an issue. But I get it about the pervs and the unwelcomed attention.
@abe182: Have you ever considered asking?
GlitzandGlamber · 26-30, F
[c=#BF0080] @abe182: Of course! Yeah I totes feel you there. Because what one would say to a 15 year old and a 70 year old and a Male or Female could be totes different! I know. I think people should perhaps at least show their sex if they hide their age. Cuz it's kinda hard to build trust and any communication when you don't even know if they are a dudeski or a ladyy.. I mean it is kinddd of a big difference lol. But of course it is completely up to the individual! Plus y'all have a point too - even if they do say it, who really knows if they are even being truthful?! Alas - the joys and pitfalls of the worldwide web.. 😜[/c]
Fernie · F
@abe182: what makes you think they would be truthful about it all?
abe182 · 46-50, M
@DesiredNightmare: well if you didn't display it then you don't want me to know. So why pry?
abe182 · 46-50, M
@GlitzandGlamber: very very true. Joys and pitfalls.
@abe182: I never said I don't want you to know. I don't need everyone looking for someone to harass seeing my age and gender and deciding to PM me. My inbox is virtually dead since I hid that information.
abe182 · 46-50, M
@Fernie: and that's the problem. If you can't be straight forward with that then nothing more to be said.