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ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
You have to trust when it's earned and warranted. Otherwise your fulfilled life is going to be one of crippled suspicions and negativity. If you are comfortable with that then go for it, but it's a waste of life. NO ONE is ever going to walk free of hard times with people who do them wrong. It's going to happen. Deal with it when it does instead of borrowing trouble.
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@ravenwind43 I've been searching and looking forward to meeting people my whole life, like a best friend, my soulmate, etc. But now I start to realize that those are just illusions, and no such thing exists. Like 100% trust, to the grave.
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@ravenwind43 So Idk what to, how to live next, like.. meaning in life...there is no meaning no more, just.. hop from one experience to another? or what?
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
@ravenwind43 Secondly,.a best friend and "soul mate" is awesome to have but can't make up the whole of your life. You have to know who you are first. Be okay with yourself.
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@ravenwind43 I don't think a therapist is what ai'm looking for. Because I have differwnt kinds of questions than the answers he can have.