You can't play hard to get if you're hard to want because nobody will ever love you. Not even god

Some people perceive the phrase "hard to get" when someone is genuinely not interested, or wanting to take their time to make any form of decision. Whether it be church, relationships, or everyday life decisions.

These days their are so many fake preachers and churches out there seeking to make money out of poor, desperately seeking some form of salvation folk out there. In most cases the church has become a money making business and I've seens and heard from the mouths of ex-pastors. Discernment is important and can also be perceived has "hard to want".

Whereas God's acceptance of us is concerned. His will is not ours and His thinking not either. Your relationship with Him, if any, is a personal one. It is not between you, everyone else and Him.

Be careful of self proclaimed judgements that can cause rifts between people. Live your life according to God's will. Focus on your journey with Him and those around you will see Him in you and seek Him. God is quite capable of looking after and finding His children.

God loved you before the creation of time. Sometimes we are just thickheaded.

Projection.