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Im confused. How should I go about this?

My ex boyfriends close friend recently started to talk to me. Me and the ex boyfriend remain friends but we never fell in love or got super serious. Fast forward months after breaking up, his close friend messages me on Instagram and we meet up with our dogs to hang out, we hit it off. We plan to hang out again. The second time he makes a move. I tell him it’s weird because of how we met (through my ex). He agrees and says we can keep it a secret-because it’s obvious we like each other. I am not too comfortable with being a secret. I feel like I’m being used. I do like him but I tend to get attached to people so I don’t want to keep it going if he’s just going to break my heart. But we get along so well. He even asked me to a Marine Corps Ball he has to attend 3 weeks from now.

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Shapeshifter · 36-40, M

He started talking to you? And you didn't talk talk?? Oh come you knew what you were getting into before you started talking to him. You're no good, just admit it.

SW-User

If you're not comfortable with it, then don't.
If you want to get closer with him, then forget the secrets and tiptoeing around your ex (who you don't owe anything) and go for it.
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Your dogs met through you guys. You don't expect them to sneak around in case you two don't hit it off, do you? Harharhar...Okay. I'll see myself out now. 🤷‍♀️

coary987 · M

Well go with him tell your x that you got a invite and going to it.
He will probably say have a good time and good luck.
Is your x with someone else??

Guitarist07 · 31-35, F

Walk away. You’ll ruin their friendship and you don’t them to be angry with you

Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F

Why do you feel used

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