do u get lot of PM's?

Yes... And I don't open many of them.

They should slow down if you ignore them. It's best not to answer any random messages. If you do they can forever hound you with more PMs.

that's why I ask them to give me a break

Few and only replies to mine, if they bother.

No, not really.

My inbox has spider webs.

Yup.

nope hardly at all. that seems to be more of a woman thing. guys trying to vi for a womans attention or seeking sexual things.

some but not really that many

No not much.