Do you feel in control in your relationship? is that a good or a bad thing?

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit what do you mean?

If I felt there wasn’t any control then I might feel it’s off the rails. ( unstable)@popmol

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit so you need your nails int otheir back so you have somethign to hang on xD

@popmol lol now I’m the confused one

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit i don't know what you mean under control, someone else seems to think i mean like a dominatrix or they are a slave not sure what kind of control you want to have :p

Lol I just meant my relationship is healthy. I’ve heard people struggling in theirs that they feel so out of control.@popmol

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit like they can't do anythign?

Yes like it’s going downhill but they can’t fix it@popmol

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit so like i said you need claws in your husbands back, if he doesn't fall you won't xD

Nah I keep myself standing lol he just makes life happier@popmol

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit i'm glad he does or else i would have done something like an evil plan to split you up xD

😅@popmol

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit an entire heist!