Do you ever wake up in a weird mood where you start messaging various people and you get rejected like twice?

Not really rejected I guess I mean I messaged a friend to ask about his well-being and he told me he doesn't have the energy for niceness towards a new friend these days and that if he knew me long enough he'd show his depressed self to me. He apologized right afterwards and I get that he is in a bad place in life right now.

The second one I asked if she has watched a specific movie and she tells me that her friends spoiled it for her and she isn't going to watch it.

The 3rd person is a phone dealer I told him about a problem I have at the post office he answered one of my questions that he dealt with the same issue and ignored the other where I asked how he waited to get access to his package.

What am I doing wrong? 🤔