I heard someone say "if someone gets their feelings hurt it's their own damn fault"

It's your fault if you know them and expect them to be different... But then it's complicated to control your actions, when feelings are strong.

Untrue

It's a inconsiderate saying. I can take a joke as well as the next person, but it's real funny that when someone points out something they're sensitive about, then it's absolutely not OK. Don't dish out what you can't take.