i have been incontinence all you life

I've never been out of nappies. Yet I'm 33 years old. Not my fault but get picked on alot. No big deal, some of us have different things to deal with in life than others. For us, it's a water works problem. Don't feel ashamed, we are only humans doing our best to survive. :)

that's a long long long time dear luke

So have I.I know how you feel.