Would you give your extended family the code to your house?

@curiosi I know. My coworker says her brothers come over while she's at work, eat, leave a mess, bring their dogs in...um no

@iamnikki My aunt/uncle live in one of those gated community places. They gave out keys to their house to all their neighbors. I'm like REALLY? Her answer floored me 'What was I supposed to do they gave me keys to their house"
Once when they were away for a long weekend one of them went in the house looked in the fridge and didn't close the door properly. All the food was spoiled. Now there was NO reason for them to look in the fridge.

@curiosi That's crazy and right, what were they doing in the fridge?? I don't know why some people are so comfty with their darn neighbors. When I was 14, I'd babysit for my aunt. My aunt had just come home from work, thru the garage, then went in her room, right next to the garage area. Few minutes later, this guy just walks in the house, no knock or anything. I'm like Um , there's a guy in here!

She walks out her room all nonchalant " oh that's just Ben, Hey Ben" Then walks back in room..So does Ben live here too? lol

Scared the crap out of me.

@iamnikki not at all odd. When I'm away, I need them to check things, bring deliveries in, turn on the irrigation, etc.

@GJOFJ3 ok, so they have boundaries then? My co-worker says her family has no boundaries.

@iamnikki they are family, they can stay the if they wanted to. As long as they don't repaint the master suite, all is well