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What is the most hurtful thing someone could say to you?

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Serenitree · F
Really? It isn't anything about me. But carrying stories about my kids for no reason except to see me hurt. That's the meanest.

One girl came to my house and said she wanted to talk to me. She was my daughters friend, so I let her in, even though I disliked her, I figured, if she needed advice or help with something, I'd hear her out.

She began by saying "I don't want to turn you against Denni, or make you hate her".

I stopped her right there. I asked her what gave her the idea she had that much power. Where she got the idea that anything she could tell me might make me hate my own kid. She flounced out saying fine if you don't want to know........

I didn't want to know. And now, 22 years later, I still don't know what she wanted to say. And I still love my daughter. She couldn't have said anything that could stop my love. But the idea that she would even try, hurt like hell.
Winterwanderer · 26-30, M
Wow, yeah. She assumed that your bond with your child was so frail, that any amount of words could turn you against her. But this also says something about your love for your children.
Serenitree · F
@Winterwanderer: and her relationship with her mother. I found out later that her mother always sided against her. No matter who said what, her mother believed the worst and treated her like trash.
Winterwanderer · 26-30, M
I can't imagine that, that doesn't justify her words, but that's so much to have to deal with I bet