I really want to ask difficult, more awkward questions on here but ppl do get really sensitive talking those things!

@CountScrofula someone said about non binary person, which I looked up. I find a lot of these ideas to be rather unusual. I'm not the most conventional person but I do wonder what ppl must think of themselves to come up with certain beliefs about who they are.

@JovialPlutonian i think most/many beliefs, are based on feelings, rather than considerations. others will try to find a logical idea to explain what they are experiencing.
i think "non binary" is too useful an idea to be fixed only on discussions of sexual variation.
Non binary, can mean
there are more than just 2 positions to have.
like the wave and the particle.

@Amylynne personally I belief one can be of a physical gender but the personality of the opposite sex, like a tom boy or just anyone that's androgynous. I definitely fall into that category but I still identify my physical sex as what it is. There's no confusion there. I just find it very dangerous when it comes to someone physically changing the bodies sex, tbh I don't believe they actually can.

@JovialPlutonian oh they aere very good at trans ops now.
things look right, and i understand even feel right.
but i think doing so before you are like35 or so,, is asking for challneges.
ALSO do it before you are 50 something, so you wont just be another grandmah.

i think you are right, it is FINE to have a body that is of one gender, and a sensual choice that is not a match.

@JovialPlutonian Well I'll ask this - what would the purpose of the question be?

Are you trying to learn something, or trying to assert something?

@Amylynne I think it's more the case that every individual possesses all but rather represses most of it. It's understandable why so many men have emotional issues.

@JovialPlutonian males in our culture are stunted emotionally, and a great deal of that is fear of being seen "the wrong way"

@Amylynne nonetheless you seem very openminded, it's quite refreshing to talk to you. No expectations hey!

@JovialPlutonian thanks, it is a hallmark of our family tradition,
and my own choices,, are for me,,, others have others.

@Amylynne by the wrong way do you mean to socially unaccepted way?

@JovialPlutonian yeah kinda,, the culture of young men is very full of fear of not matching the other guys.
social acceptance is very important to these primates
in a social species,, not being a part means you are often in danger

@Amylynne they don't know themselves.