Your former lover contacts you, apologizes for their wrongdoings and asks for another chance.
Your response?
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CharlieZ · 70-79, M
No.
Why?
Cos not loving me, or not enough, is hardly a "wrongdoing".
It´s a valid thing (so if a feeling as if a choice) in a personal level. No need to appologize for that.
And the factual "wrongdoings" were caused, IMO, by that.
But not a thing also valid as the fundation of a relationship.
Results?
I may forgive them as human beings IF there is something to forgive. Not sure if there is the need for.
But I will never be again in a relationship where I´m not enough loved, by no concevaible reason.
Why?
Cos not loving me, or not enough, is hardly a "wrongdoing".
It´s a valid thing (so if a feeling as if a choice) in a personal level. No need to appologize for that.
And the factual "wrongdoings" were caused, IMO, by that.
But not a thing also valid as the fundation of a relationship.
Results?
I may forgive them as human beings IF there is something to forgive. Not sure if there is the need for.
But I will never be again in a relationship where I´m not enough loved, by no concevaible reason.
